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The
Great Baby Name Debate
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by:
Claire Kolarova
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Winifred or Willow? Thomas or Troy? The name
you choose for your child will last a lifetime. Whether you're looking
for something original that will stand out from the crowd or a
traditional name that people will instantly recognize, choosing a name
for your new baby is a huge responsibility.
It goes without saying that you as the parents must like the name.
Names that hold bad associations for you are out (Jeremy was a bore at
school, you can't stand Bella in the Tweenies), and if you consider
your own name uninteresting, you may wish to choose something more
exotic - or vice versa.
Think carefully about combinations of first name and surname. Are they
compatible? You may like a mixture of an unusual first name with a more
familiar surname (Zara Phillips), but be careful about rhyming the two
names - Mark Clarke won't thank you for it. Beware initials that could
cause hilarity to your child's future friends - Ethan Thomas or Peter
Oliver Ogilvie won't be joining in the giggles! Trying to be clever can
also cause grief - Poppy Fields or Summer Winters may sound cute at the
time, but can eventually grate on everyone's nerves!
If she's called Grace, will she turn out to be butter-fingered? Will
Maximus grow into a Mr. Puniverse? Is Jordan a boy or a girl? What will
Elizabeth grow up as? Lizzie? Beth? Liza? And as for Ashleigh, Ashley,
Ashlee, Ashlea and Ashlie - all in circulation at the moment - how is
anyone supposed to find a name that is both special and appropriate?
Fortunately, sources of inspiration can be found everywhere. You can
avoid the throng of Chloes, Emilys, Jacobs and Jacks topping the baby
name charts for the past few years, and choose from a huge variety of
names collected in specialist books and on the Internet. Some parents
prefer biblical names - Rebecca, Abigail, Joshua, Samuel and Joseph are
all very popular at the moment. Names inspired by nature include
Blossom, Lily or Skye and even Tiger for boys. Place names (Paris,
Lamorna), colours (Coral, Ebony), astronomy, music, and sport - all
provide a wealth of ideas and choice.
Naming twins presents its own set of challenges. You may wish to link
the names in some way using the same first letter (Jack and Jill?) or a
theme such as Liberty and Faith, or even similar names like Leo and
Eleonora. However, you might end up having two very independent
children who don't wish to be connected by name as well as birthday. A
less obvious connection involves using different names with similar
meanings such as Columba and Jemima (both meaning dove), or Jonathan
and Matthew (gift of God).
For those of us who still haven't decided even when the stork delivers,
the arrival of your newborn may give you all the inspiration you need!
Christmas babies often appear as Noel or Noelle, Natalie or Natasha,
nighttime births produce star inspired names such as Stella, Esther or
Sterling, and for thankful parents after a difficult birth, Nathaniel
(gift of God), Abigail (father's joy) or Miranda (wonderful) might fit
the bill.
So whether you plump for Clifford or Condor, Harriet or Harmony, above
all have fun choosing that special name - and with careful thought,
your child will grow up bearing a name you can all be proud of!
About the author:
Claire Kolarova is a busy mother, teacher and webmaster. Visit her baby
shower games pages for more ways to celebrate baby!
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